Is there such a thing as ANTI OCD?

I think I just may be the only person on the face of the earth that doesn't have "things"...you know "things" like, a certain way to do "things" or certain places for "things" or a system in which "things" have to be done.  I don't get it. And what's worse, is I should be REALLY easy to get along with because of this, but I honestly believe, people don't get me because of it.  And people with "things", which seems to be everyone but me, drive me crazy in return.  I don't know what to do to change it other than try to start having "THINGS".  Is there like an Anti OCD medication that I can take that will all of sudden make it matter to me where I leave the sponge in the sink?  Or possibly a pill to make me feel the the need to have a system on how I alternate between shampoos when I take a shower?  I don't know...is it me?  I have literally spent a lifetime trying to train myself to not let the small stuff bother me and the fact that Everything is small stuff, but what I'm finding out is NO ONE else thinks that way!  Which means EVERYTHING that I think is no big deal, EVERYONE AROUND ME THINKS IT IS A BIG DEAL!  I'm in a new relationship and it's funny because I knew from the beginning she had a routine after her shower, but that seemed normal enough.  I kind of do...I mean I dry off and get dressed.  That's about the extent of the routine, because I'm always interrupted by Joey to answer a question or come look at something, so if I had a routine, it would never work anyway! LOL So I just don't.  I do things when I can and try no to worry about it. I totally understand that other people just have certain ways to do things, and I'm certainly not faulting anyone who does, I just thought NOT having certain ways to do everything would make it easier to get along with people, but I think being laid back about EVERYTHING may have made me OCD about not being OCD!  Capeesh?